The TueDo List: Girl Bands + Grown-Ass Advice + 🤎 for ☕️

Our first TueNighters workshop starts tonight!

THIS WEEK

📖 READ: TueNight gets a shoutout in a NYT piece on perimenopause and in the NY Post about our new community! What moving during a pandemic taught me about the meaning of home. The clothing advice I wish my mother (and I) would take. Lucy Liu on the danger of Asian stereotypes. An annotated history of “Doris.” 10 essential books by Vietnamese American writers. How racism pushed Tina Turner and other Black women artists out of America. Three women share later-in-life accomplishments

🛒 ADD TO CART: New books by OprahElizabeth Warren, and Alison Bechdel.

👀 LOOK: Drumming grandmother goes viral on TikTok. So does a new way of measuring bra size. “The Great Wall,” Judy Baca’s LA mural, is going to be extended to a full mile in length. Female and childfree, in photos. A new director’s cut of Prince's "While My Guitar Gently Weeps" guitar solo

📺 STREAM

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ADVICE:  I Wake Up at 3 a.m. Every Night. How Do I Get Back to Sleep?

By Margaret Crandall

Dear TueNight,

I used to be a champion sleeper. I’d be out like a light when my head hit the pillow, unconscious for at least seven hours. Not anymore! For the last several months, I’ve been waking up in the middle of the night — usually around 3 a.m. — and then I can’t get back to sleep. I’m exhausted, cranky, and way too busy for daytime naps. Oh, and sleeping pills scare the hell out of me. I’m desperate for sleep — can you help me?

Here's Our Advice


⚡️ TONIGHT! Join Our Storytelling Workshop, 7 p.m. EST⚡️

If you’re a member of our brand new TueNighters community, all members receive access to Robin Gelfenbein’s 4-week course The Art of Storytelling which starts tonight at 7 p.m. (Eastern). Robin’s a storytelling pro, podcast host, and three-time Moth winner who knows what she’s talking about. Robin typically teaches this course for $400 a person, but TueNighters get access simply for the price of membership!

Sign Up Here


OBSESSED: My Secret to Happiness? Coffee Beans, Delivered

By Michelle Arnold

The last year has taught me to find happiness where I can, and that includes coffee. My Trade Coffee subscription is a continuous drip of new tastes and artful packages from the nation’s best coffee roasters.

Keep Reading


A selection of great stories and listens from other “grown-ass lady” sites


May the, uh, fourth be with you, TueNighters, and Happy Mother’s Day!