The TueDo List: Lady Bosses + Caftan Summer + Grown-Ass Advice

And a TueNighter who kissed Rick Springfield


📖 READ: How I found peace and happiness calling Kentucky’s cicada hotline. An oral history of the Lesbian Avengers and the Dyke March. Pride has always been a glorious mess. The only band Prince was ever afraid of: The Time. “Every summer is a caftan summer.”

👀 LOOK: The Ramones on Regis and Kathy Lee in 1988. 

🎧 LISTEN: Post-COVID dating advice from Dr. Ruth. Loving Sally Ride.

🤣 LOL:  A, um, hands-on review of pants you can pee in. The name of this new menopause literary zine

🛒 ADD TO CART: Vivienne Westwood Catwalk: The Complete Collections. Anything called “go-to-hell pants.”


TONIGHT: Join Margit in conversation with Kristin van Ogtrop. FREE!

Join us tonight at 7pm (Eastern) for our next TueNight Tea, where Margit will talk to Kristin van Ogtrop (author of Did I Say that Out Loud?, former Editor in Chief of Real Simple, and Margit’s former boss!) about midlife humiliations, hilarity, and triumphs. The event is free, but you’ll need to register first.

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ADVICE: Is My Job Exploiting Me?

By Stacy Morrison

Dear TueNight,

Does my philosophy of taking pay where I can get it undermine the higher rate that I should be asking for? Am I being exploited by a company that has no compunction to drop me to part-time after 14 years of full-time work?

Here's Our Advice

TueNight 10: Michelle Arnold

TueNighter Michelle Arnold knows her way around mid-century decor and has some capital-S Stories. “I’ve taught school in France, been kissed by Rick Springfield, hugged by Simon Le Bon, had cheesecake with my absolute childhood hero, Stephanie Zimbalist (from Remington Steele), and I get to live in NYC and work with music, my life-long passion, every day.”

Read Her TueNight 10

Have a safe and happy holiday weekend, Tuenighters!